Selena Gomez claims that the boyfriends she had prior to dating Justin Bieber made her miserable. What does Justin do that the others didn't? Or does the Biebs simply have that magic touch?
According to Hollywood Life, Selena says the comfort she gets from being around Justin Bieber gives her a sense of happiness she never had before. He accepts her for who she is, and she doesn't need to pretend when she's with him.
"The only thing I ever tell my fans is it's just not worth it to be someone you're not. I've conformed to a lot of guys that I liked before; it's very easy to want to be what they want you to be. But in the end, it just wasn't enjoyable and I was miserable half the time. Now, I'm very straightforward. The best person is some one you can be yourself with," Selena Gomez says.
How wonderful that she's found that with Justin Bieber. Some people wait the better part of a lifetime to find someone who will love them unconditionally, and Selena Gomez has found it at the age of nineteen.
This is undoubtedly a big factor in why the relationship she shares with Justin Bieber works. They have respect for one another, love for one another, and complete acceptance of each other. There are no conditions on their love.
Good for Selena Gomez for sharing this with her fans, too. Too many young women try to conform to what their boyfriends feel they should be. And that doesn't work. Besides, if someone doesn't love you for you--is it really worth it? Perhaps fans will heed Selena's advice!
Hopefully Selena Gomez will relish the unconditional love she gets from Justin Bieber while each of them head off in opposite directions very soon. Justin is taking his concert tour to South America, while Selena takes hers to Canada.